Mothers

She is dramatic, you probably call her a drama queen, she is hysterical, she overreacts, she gets angry at you for what you think is no reason, well she is your mother. People say a mother’s love is greater than any other love, its probably true but we fail to realize it. In this article I shall shed some light upon certain factors such as how we treat our mom, how she gives us unconditional love, what she does for us and why we can’t live without her.

Our mom cleans our room, picks up our dirty clothes, in many cases makes us our meals. She is the official last resort mood maker and confidence booster. She gives us pep talk, she gives us peppier food. Not to mention we are too scared to ask our dad for money, so she funds our outings. We know that no matter what mistake we make, no matter how many times we fail, she will be there for us, she will advise us, but will not judge us. She will skip her work but will help us do our homework. She used to walk us to our bus stop every morning, carrying our heavy burden of knowledge on her shoulders. When we were aboard our bus and she walking back home, the only thing she was thinking about is probably whether we will like our Tiffin that she has prepared for us, for which we haven’t thanked her to date. She probably forgets to put ketchup with your burger, she didn’t mean to, don’t kill her for doing that when you get back home, by saying “what the hell mom? You don’t even know how to make Tiffin” probably even we didn’t mean it that way and we walk off, failing to realize that her heart is crying, for she then thinks, that she never gives you good food, which is clearly never the case. We come home from school or college and do not find food to our liking and we crib and throw a tantrum, but probably she made that food for our benefit, our health.

We grow up, we go out with our friends all the time, but never with our mom, and maybe even she wants to see a particular movie or visit a particular restaurant. We just ask her for cash and that’s about it. In certain cases we say really horrendous, things to our mothers and even when we know we are wrong. Sometimes she may slap us, and we think the heavens may have fallen down, she is your mom for heaven’s sake , she has every right to slap you. We owe her our life, she kept us in her womb for 9 months, she faced tremendous amount of pain and effort while we were in there. When we were young she stayed up all night so that we could sleep comfortably the least we can do is give her the respect she deserves. She gives us advice on issues in life and we think that she is nagging us and we snap back.

We should consider her point of view also, she manages us, our dad and our siblings among other people, and sometimes she too needs to vent out and we should get too angry if she screams at us for no reason whatsoever. We should know that no matter what we say or do to her or anyone else , she will always love us more than anyone else can, also we can’t live without her and we love her irrespective of what sometimes we may think. We should talk to her more politely, respect her more, do little things she asks for and this will mean the world to her. I hope I’ve changed mine and your mindsets a little. Your mother will have a great deal of trouble with you but I think she will enjoy it.